THE BACHMANN FOUR

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Friday, September 29, 2017

A Little More Freedom


Savannah and Avery are becoming great friends.  Although they went to elementary school together, they weren't really close, but being that they ride to and from middle school together every single day their friendship is growing.  So they have been talking about how much they wanted to have a Friday treat and be able to walk to the Promenade after school.  I really wasn't sure that was a good idea, or honestly if I wanted to let go and give her that freedom just yet.  BUT, they kept asking so I figured that I'd mention it to Avery's mom and get her thoughts.  As it turns out, she was on board (although a bit hesitant too).  I must have asked Dave 20 times if he was sure it was okay for them to walk "with all the other middle schoolers" on their own after school today.  He said it was "fine!"  So off they went. 

It was a very odd feeling knowing that they had their own money and would walk to a shopping center together to purchase a treat all on their own.  But we all survived!  As it turns out they are a great pair together.  Avery is super outgoing and talks to many of the middle school kids there, which is good for Savannah to experience that boost of confidence being with her.  Savannah is very cautious and careful with her money, which is good for Avery too.  When I picked them up that's one of the first things Avery said "Savannah is teaching me how to make sure I paid the right amount and got the right change."

They had a great time and stayed together just like we told them . . and were waiting right where they promised they would be at 4:00pm.  The joys of middle school are just beginning . . . it's a learning process for us all!

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